One of my good friends, who is also a colleague, is having an affair with her boss. I don't know how to convince her that there' sth wrong with this. He seems to be fine actually. But I am worried abt her anyway. M i worrying unnecessarily?
Romance at work
Submitted by vish_kapoor on Wed, 03/31/2010 - 18:39
One of my good friends, who is also a colleague, is having an affair with her boss. I don't know how to convince her that there' sth wrong with this. He seems to be fine actually. But I am worried abt her anyway. M i worrying unnecessarily? |
Most office romancs r really
Most office romancs r really frivolous relationships tht mean nothing. If threatened with being fired, wud your frnds prefer to resign, or wud they prefer to break up?
Your worries are not entirely
Your worries are not entirely baseless. Most companies have a strict policy on romantic relationships between employees. However, if your friend and her boss are really serious about each other, then this could be a minor problem. If they are both willing for a long term relationship(and are single legally), then one of them can move to a different organisation to make things simpler. Working together is not a good idea as it could negatively affect their careers.
I agree. They shud either
I agree. They shud either break up or one of them shud leave the company.
in real world, sab chalta hai
in real world, sab chalta hai yaar! i hv seen rules being bent even in top mnc companies. theoratically, romance at work is very wrong. but in real life, it is rampant...even for married ppl.
It is so difficult to fight
It is so difficult to fight attraction sometimes, especially when you spend long hours together at work. Is it just me, or do others also go through these feelings of attraction and guilt?
I think many ppl experience
I think many ppl experience these feelings. But we r trained to supress feelings of attraction, esp women in our society. Plus it is seen negatibvely at work, so even more reason to disregard these feelings.
If u r looking for a
If u r looking for a frivolour romance, there r other places to do it. Dont do at work. However, if u r looking for a husband, obviously u r too desperate to care for ur career. so leave ur job n focus on hubby search only.
I m attracted to 3 hot guys
I m attracted to 3 hot guys in my office. I flirt with all 3. I can't decide if I like any one of them more than the others.